In a chapter exploring what happens when change doesn't occur after seeking reconciliation, the author explains that the lack of change could stem from three sources: the person seeking change (through ineffective methods), their partner (who may be fundamentally incompatible or unwilling to change), or the nature of the problem itself (where ingrained habits and addictions create well-worn neural pathways that are difficult to alter).
The Road to Reconciliation describes a path towards healing and potential forgiveness for anyone in a relationship affected by selfishness, violence, abuse, addiction, or betrayal. It guides the reader (or podcast listener) on how to assess the damage done and recognize codependency and vindictiveness, blocking the way from injury to peace. It gives pragmatic advice on how to help you find safety, assert needs, apologize, make amends, and promote change.
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